In my last blog entry I began sharing tips for building confidence. I initially created this list several weeks ago for a group of unemployed professionals who needed a motivational boost as they prepare for their continued job search 2011. Losing your job, whether through a layoff, restructuring or termination is a traumatic experience for anyone and is often damaging to one’s confidence. Our professional stature is so often connected to our feelings of self-esteem and confidence. In addition, the job search process alone can take a toll on self-belief. Job seekers are on the employment roller coaster of interviews, opportunities as well as competition and rejection. So it’s important for that people in career transition actively rebuild their confidence and project to their future employers the confidence talent and ability they possess. Below are 3 more tips for impacting your self-confidence.
2. Realize that you are not alone: Everyone has feelings of uncertainty from time to time. A good deal of low self-confidence is directly related to irrational beliefs we have that others around us are somehow immortal and do not suffer from the same uncertainties we do. Begin with the understanding that we all experience lapses in our self-confidence.
3. Celebrate your successes: Self Confidence is cumulative. It comes from and builds on achievements. Recognize you successes and pat yourself on the back.
Accept & acknowledge praise from others.
4. Connect with a friend or colleague: Think of someone who respects you and values you. Give them a call and offer to lend them a hand. It will be a win-win situation, they will get your help and in turn their respect and need for you will feed your ego.
